In reply to Jennifer Bourn.

All of this. Family first does not necessarily mean "must spend X hours doing this" or "must spend fewer than X hours working" because, like many people said, there are many seasons to life and different priorities to each season. Family First really means making sure your whole family communicates and understands what you're doing and why, supports you, and feels included in your life, and feels like whatever time you do have to spend with them, you'll be able to be fully present for some or all of that time.