In reply to Jeff Chandler.

I have to say this, I don't even know how to do WordPress and Am impressed that all of you are so awesome at these kinds of things. That said, twitter sucks, Facebook isn't much better they both suck your time away. And you're right everybody knows about your life. I find them slightly ridiculous actually unless of course you're using them for advertising or something of that nature. Facebook does have some good if you use it to keep up with the people that you know and love who are distant as far as miles go.It looks like already have communication or are developing it, which is a good thing. Make sure you keep it open because ultimately it will make or break your relationship. You can't fix a problem you didn't know you had. For the record, I do have a Facebook account. I do hope to become proficient enough to at least supplement my income. I find it encouraging that many of you are able to make a living doing this but everything has its sacrifices. We like to think were in control of our situations but in reality, we aren't and never will be. There will always be something that controls us, it's just a fact of life. Of course control can be minimized but it will always be part of the equation. Just do your best to control your situation and have balance. Sorry I'm new to the writing thing so I babble and go off track somewhat, but hopefully I will get there. I'm finding this blog to be helpful in that regard. I don't have the same issues as most of you. As a matter of fact, at this point my life is not too bad and I live on disability CPP disability. It is very little money but my family is instrumental and so supportive without them I probably wouldn't even be here. A loving and caring support system is key in anyone's life. That is my belief. Sure I'd like to make more money and probably at some point will have to and hopefully by then I will know how to do a WordPress website. That's right, I am WordPress illiterate. I match a jealous that most of you have the skills you do but hey mine is more of a relationship fixing skill but without a degree it's a little difficult to find employment. You can't cite that you helped your friends as experience. Anyway enough for now. You'll make it Jeff you just have to not lose sight and keep reminding yourself that your wife is the most important thing in your life. The fact that you're actually trying to change things to make your relationship better says that you are already part way there. The doctors doesn't matter if you have a distributor's job or whatever you call it were a regular job. Relationships aren't easy, I see strife all around me so is not really just something that happens to folks like yourselves. Everybody goes through it on some level. It really depends on your partner as well some are very accommodating, some not so much. Every relationship is unique but guidelines help. It is a very interesting topic and people are not honest with themselves a lot of the time when it comes to relationships. I'm glad you're all talking about it and it seems like you know each other, so it's nice that you're there to help each other. Keep it up. To Miroslav your job must really suck sometimes politicians are full of sh** and you have to report on it, oh well there could be worse things.