I'll tell you something: when I cook a cake or cookies, my wife and her friends also says "not bad for a man". Am I bitching about it? Nope.
Why? I'm not touchy.

I just think that cited asian female developer is too touchy, she could focus on success, if she wants to be more like men (and that's for sure) and not to scream all over that "they all are dehonesting/sexistic".

It was a compliment, for x's sake. It wasn't anything bad.

You know - her last comment (and this blogpost) wasn't helpful at all.